Comments on: Addendum to Heroic Mothers: Less Self-Pity https://godammit.com/addendum-to-heroic-mothers-less-self-pity/ And I'm getting madder. Wed, 30 Aug 2017 00:23:30 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: Kellie https://godammit.com/addendum-to-heroic-mothers-less-self-pity/comment-page-1/#comment-2744530 Wed, 30 Aug 2017 00:23:30 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=12455#comment-2744530 We all have to learn to work with our strengths. Not everyone has to change the world. Nor should they.
With everything being so crazy and out of control in the world, its more than ok to focus your efforts on what you can do. Which is be with your people. We are all just struggling along, trying to make the most of our own bad situations.
You are an inspiration to me. All that you have had to deal with, more than 10 people’s worth of shit I would say.
Keep on keepin on. You are amazing.

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By: Sandra https://godammit.com/addendum-to-heroic-mothers-less-self-pity/comment-page-1/#comment-2744514 Mon, 28 Aug 2017 16:11:29 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=12455#comment-2744514 But you are a doer. You’re writing and that’s doing a thing. I’m sure you’ve helped people who have also lost a child by writing about your grief. I’m sure you have helped people who are having a shitty time in other ways by distracting them with your Horrible Denim Callouts.

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By: Suspended https://godammit.com/addendum-to-heroic-mothers-less-self-pity/comment-page-1/#comment-2744510 Mon, 28 Aug 2017 10:59:46 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=12455#comment-2744510 Now I’m certain you’re overstating my effect but it’s still kind of you to say. Most of the time I feel like I’m boring you all to death with my idiotic ramblings. I’ve deleted so many comments once the realisation of “who cares?” kicks in but I’ll still never leave you 😉

Yes! Buy the perfume and wear it in my honour! I can take that quite happily 🙂

(then you can let me know if it’s any good and I can buy one too.)

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By: Sister Wolf https://godammit.com/addendum-to-heroic-mothers-less-self-pity/comment-page-1/#comment-2744483 Fri, 25 Aug 2017 03:34:35 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=12455#comment-2744483 Dj – I love you back.

Tom Isenberg – I think of you every single day when I look at the tiny piggy on my desk xo

Mary – Thank you for the kind words. We couldn’t help being depressed young mothers – those are the cards that were dealt to us. I’m so glad you have the grandchildren in your life!

Penny – Thanks for sticking with me. Have you tried MAC Ruby Woo to start with?

Romeo – Hahahahahhaa! xoxoxoxo

Suspended – Your comment on the Hero Mothers is what changed my perspective. You have had a real impact on my life, you know that? I’m gonna get the god damn perfume and wear it in your honor.

Andra – Yep, yep, thank you Andra. You are an excellent role model.

Mr. Picodogg – I’m nothing without my team.

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By: Mr. Picodogg https://godammit.com/addendum-to-heroic-mothers-less-self-pity/comment-page-1/#comment-2744482 Fri, 25 Aug 2017 02:10:44 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=12455#comment-2744482 You’re all kinds of good!

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By: Andra https://godammit.com/addendum-to-heroic-mothers-less-self-pity/comment-page-1/#comment-2744481 Thu, 24 Aug 2017 20:39:56 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=12455#comment-2744481 You’re doing just fine and remember – every day above ground’s a good day!

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By: Suspended https://godammit.com/addendum-to-heroic-mothers-less-self-pity/comment-page-1/#comment-2744473 Wed, 23 Aug 2017 20:37:36 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=12455#comment-2744473 Have a great Birthday without the self-deprecation. Treat yourself to that cannabis fragrance, a new blood rouge lip tint and some fancy new footwear. I insist!

This post made me smile. You sound ever so human. I’m preachy too and I often find as soon as I make some lofty proclamation, I do the opposite five minutes later. I think I might be a hypocrite but I feel what I feel in the moment.

I love that you haven’t learned everything about forgiveness. You shouldn’t either. That would be depressing. It’s nice to hold on to a little something even if it’s just the tiniest little grudge.

Thank you for all the insightful moments you’ve given us over the years. I can’t count the amount of times you’ve made me think, laugh or cry with your beautiful words and experiences. xoxo

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By: Romeo https://godammit.com/addendum-to-heroic-mothers-less-self-pity/comment-page-1/#comment-2744472 Wed, 23 Aug 2017 18:55:52 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=12455#comment-2744472 “I’m good at calming people who are frantic with anxiety and depression.”
You have been a great source of comfort to many no matter what slanders the pro-chicken lobby might smear upon you.

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By: Penny https://godammit.com/addendum-to-heroic-mothers-less-self-pity/comment-page-1/#comment-2744462 Wed, 23 Aug 2017 09:09:41 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=12455#comment-2744462 I’d love some red lipstick advice and would sell my soul for a decent roast chicken dinner. On a shitty day I click on to your website and can always guarantee to be entertained; whether it’s an out loud laugh or something to ponder on; don’t ever trivialise or take that gift for granted SW. How dull the world would be if we were all the same.

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By: mary https://godammit.com/addendum-to-heroic-mothers-less-self-pity/comment-page-1/#comment-2744461 Wed, 23 Aug 2017 06:02:55 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=12455#comment-2744461 I have a sometimes rancid relationship with my daughter. Our past history has been quite traumatic at times. Didn’t bond enough or something plus the pressures of being raised by a young depressed single mother (me). Yet we are both good people and bond passionately over her children (my adorable grandkids). But when our relationship is down, it’s down. And I find comfort in your posts. Your Mother’s Day post was especially inspiring without any artifice or illusions about the human condition. Thank you.

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