Comments on: Bad Therapist

By: Sister Wolf

Sister Wolf — Fri, 18 Sep 2015 18:54:52 +0000

Phoenix – That is a very bad therapist. I would report her to whatever agency licensed her. And I’m sorry to hear what you’ve been through with her.

drollgirl – Me too, yep.

Skye – So true, and so not good.

By: Phoenix

Phoenix — Fri, 18 Sep 2015 18:07:23 +0000

I recently quit therapy after seeing a therapist for quite a few years. In many ways she helped me work through many issues, however recently I noticed our relationship was not exactly healthy. As a matter of fact the relationship was a repeat of a significant harmful childhood relationship. Over the years I have actually been to my therapist house on numerous occasions from just riding a long in her van to drop her daughter off after picking her up from school, to bringing her computer back online, to attending her divorce care party with others from her group she created at the church we both attended. I stopped going after I realized what was going on. I’ve met her sister, daughter, what used to be her boyfriend, along with other important people in her life. We have on one occasion gone out to eat after having a session of therapy. I grew to really care for this woman. In a conflict of interest she was seeing who used to be a friend of mine until that person tried to control me and use me. When she couldn’t she dumped the friendship. My therapist at the time still sees that person and since she is in her fifties and has no one else to take care of her after death responsiblities, the therapist agreed to help her. She has also been to my ex friends home to help her clean it up as she is a hoarder. I question my therapist when I stopped and wonder is this healthy? I mean what other therapist does these things? Where are the boundaries? Now im hurt and frustrated due to the conflict of her seeing ans being friendly with my old friend plus her lack of clear boundaries with me which is a repeat of older relationships. Im so hurt and im never going to another therapist again. By the way, my therapist ate in her session and was late frequently, took others phone calls and texts during my sessions especially if it was her daughter. Even one session she didn’t write her appointment down with me, I show up then she tells me her new appointment wouldn’t understand if she saw me but in other words Id have to deal with it going home and not seeing her because this was a new person.

By: Skye

Skye — Wed, 18 Mar 2015 11:37:47 +0000

There are for sure some balanced and functional therapists out there, no doubt. And some who are as dysfunctional as hell but that doesn’t stop them being effective for their clients/patients (hi mom!) and there are many, many who have something to fix in themselves which they try to manage through messing with others. Lawrence sounds like someone in that latter category and I am so desperately sorry that Max ever got tangled up with that. Plus that lady sounds like a psycho, so I guess that’s his karmic reward right there.

By: drollgirl

drollgirl — Tue, 24 Feb 2015 00:45:58 +0000

humans. omfg i hate the majority of them.

By: Sister Wolf

Sister Wolf — Tue, 17 Feb 2015 08:50:34 +0000

Suspended – the universe has over-estimated how much I can take.

By: Suspended

Suspended — Sat, 14 Feb 2015 15:28:47 +0000

God, handing out business cards at a funeral?? Was that a top tip he found in his guide to inappropriate funeral etiquette? It reads like a fucking episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm; Funny, when it’s pretend, but exasperating to think people actually behave this way in real life.

And the idiocy goes on…

Isn’t it so typical of the universe to think “Ok, she’s lost her son, what other shit can we throw her way to make it even worse?”

xoxovex

By: Sister Wolf

Sister Wolf — Fri, 13 Feb 2015 09:06:58 +0000

Bevitron – YES, I thought that was crazy too. Thank god I have you for a reality check!!!

Kellie – Thank you, yep.

Aly – I said the same thing to myself…they aren’t parents, they don’t seem to get it. As for the Neurontin, maybe whoever is prescribing them for Lawrence is a hack as well.

Richard – That is plenty. Thank you, xo

Andra – xo

Danielle – I don’t think he should be allowed to see people with serious problems. Or maybe any problems. This level of incompetence in a therapist is distressing. And the behavior…I don’t know, shameful, I guess.

By: Danielle

Danielle — Thu, 12 Feb 2015 21:09:18 +0000

They should be outed for their DANGEROUS incompetence.

By: Andra

Andra — Wed, 11 Feb 2015 09:44:15 +0000

Richard, I think that’s all there is to say.
And I, for one, thank you for it.

By: Richard

Richard — Sat, 07 Feb 2015 16:03:17 +0000

I am so sorry for your loss. I don’t know what else to say.