Comments on: Crazy Mothers Club VIII https://godammit.com/crazy-mothers-club-viii/ And I'm getting madder. Tue, 09 Jun 2020 07:55:15 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: David Duff https://godammit.com/crazy-mothers-club-viii/comment-page-1/#comment-2767355 Tue, 09 Jun 2020 07:55:15 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=14351#comment-2767355 Right, your time is up! It has been a month since your last post and we’re all pining away desperate to read another. Of course, you might have gone down with this ‘virus-thingie’ – although I doubt it would have the nerve to infect you! – so I am sorry if it has. Even so, your adoring public waits patiently . . .

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By: YourTweetAdmirer https://godammit.com/crazy-mothers-club-viii/comment-page-1/#comment-2767193 Fri, 29 May 2020 23:59:45 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=14351#comment-2767193 I am a single dad raising a 11 yo girl. Your posting moved me. It brought me to tears. No one should’ve to go through what you did. But since you mentioned that your grandmother was somewhat similar to your mother I wonder if they weren’t bad moms but moms with bad genes. This could be hereditary. But girls have only a 50/50 chance of inheriting their mother’s traits. Even then, being a girl you have a spare X and this mutation may be recessive. Seems like you’re a mom. I hope you have a girl too.

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By: Romeo https://godammit.com/crazy-mothers-club-viii/comment-page-1/#comment-2767065 Thu, 21 May 2020 19:15:18 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=14351#comment-2767065 Please post something new soon. It’s heartbreaking to see that handwriting. Can’t imagine what you’ve been through.

And now: we need a hideous denim update. I think evidence is emerging that there’s a direct correlation between the rise of hideous denim and the decline of organized human existence.

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By: Sister Wolf https://godammit.com/crazy-mothers-club-viii/comment-page-1/#comment-2766994 Fri, 15 May 2020 22:21:17 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=14351#comment-2766994 Hannah – If you needed this, I’m glad to provide it. But I’m sorry about what you experienced with your mother. Your self-awareness will inform your mothering, and I believe it’s within your power to end the cycle of abuse in your family. Please keep me posted on the birth of your baby!!!!xoxo

Suspended – I know. I remember how overwhelming some of the comments were. But it shows how much people need to talk about this, instead of feeling shamed into silence. If you think you’re the only one, it’s a tougher cross to bear, right?

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By: Suspended https://godammit.com/crazy-mothers-club-viii/comment-page-1/#comment-2766974 Thu, 14 May 2020 23:42:33 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=14351#comment-2766974 It’s going to take me a while to recover from those comments on the older thread. My word! My mum is crazy, no doubt, but some definitely have it much worse.

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By: Hannah https://godammit.com/crazy-mothers-club-viii/comment-page-1/#comment-2766969 Thu, 14 May 2020 20:40:40 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=14351#comment-2766969 As my 6th Mothers’ Day post-mothered and on the verge of motherhood myself, this is the post I didn’t know I needed. My mother, like yours, was crazy. Nobody thought to explain it to me why my mother sometimes hallucinated things that weren’t there, beat me because she had paranoid delusions, or would often scream that I was worthless, a slut, and stupid.
For me, I know I have the self-awareness to know when I’m feeling poorly, and I will do my best to explain it to my baby someday. My worst fear is becoming the woman who terrified me for most of my life. I just want to be a good mother, as most good mothers want to be.

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By: Sister Wolf https://godammit.com/crazy-mothers-club-viii/comment-page-1/#comment-2766932 Mon, 11 May 2020 21:49:27 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=14351#comment-2766932 JK – How lucky I am to have affected your life in a positive way!!!! The most any blogger could hope for. Thank you for sticking with me xo

Alison – Oh no, so sorry to hear. I hope you are finding some peace with this, or, you know, not actively suffering still. All my atheist blessings to you xoxo

Ck Sexton – I hear you. xoxo

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By: Ck Sexton https://godammit.com/crazy-mothers-club-viii/comment-page-1/#comment-2766924 Mon, 11 May 2020 04:03:46 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=14351#comment-2766924 I had a crazy Mom.
Love and miss her Everyday.

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By: Alison https://godammit.com/crazy-mothers-club-viii/comment-page-1/#comment-2766921 Sun, 10 May 2020 04:42:29 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=14351#comment-2766921 I am stunned by the recognition of my own mother. Your experience sounds virtually identical to mine, only when I was 37 my mother was way too far gone to organize a hate-mail campaign. The shrieking, the vacant desolation and the late night police visits to remove my “manic depressive” mother from our home. I remember being so shocked to hear my teenage friends discussing how angry they were with their mothers for this or that. Inconceivable! What a luxury, to be able to be angry with someone!
I envy your wisdom and generosity, and you sound like an amazing mother. Happy Mother’s Day to you.

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By: JK https://godammit.com/crazy-mothers-club-viii/comment-page-1/#comment-2766920 Sun, 10 May 2020 04:01:15 +0000 https://godammit.com/?p=14351#comment-2766920 I’ve a Granddaughter Sister Wolf you ought/might appreciate who ‘Thanks you’ very much.

It was a difficult time for me, not that I was ‘uninterested’ no, no not that at all. What it was was, I didn’t have a clue to ‘the how’ – you helped me and everything’s turned out pretty good. I told her some years ago she had ‘a fairy godmother’ who, although she called “Bullshit” regardless was and is aware “You” are out there.

Everyone deserves a “You.”

That ‘everyone’ doesn’t is a goddamn shame.

I Love You Sister Wolf. Always will.

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