Comments on: Even Help Is No Help

By: Sister Wolf

Sister Wolf — Sun, 28 May 2017 06:24:20 +0000

Max Page – xoxoxo

Minnesota – Thank you for your encouragement. I’m so sorry for your loss. I think that somewhere your brother is proud of your kindness. xoxo

mary – Thank you so much! xoxo

U – She obviously has problems beyond your ability to solve or understand. I hope you can find people to give you the unconditional love you deserve. I will adopt you if you like. xoxo

Eileen – All atheist blessings to you for these words. xoxo

By: Eileen

Eileen — Sat, 27 May 2017 17:14:53 +0000

Well, how you carry on helps the rest of us see how. Thank you.

By: U

Sat, 20 May 2017 06:07:37 +0000

I wish was in the position where I could decide how much I want to be in my mother’s life. We live in the same city but she never contacts me, never asks me how I am. It’s always me calling / visiting her. She is polite and nice but distant- ends the calls quickly, says she has to work when I visit. It’s always been like this. I’m now 30 and it hurts. My dad is the same, but that’s somehow easier for me to handle.

By: mary

mary — Thu, 18 May 2017 09:52:41 +0000

well you comfort me, so Happy Mother’s Day xo

By: Minnesota

Minnesota — Tue, 16 May 2017 23:26:55 +0000

You know I somehow stumbled on your blog a while ago and laughed at commentary about bizarre clothes and gruesome politics. I don’t laugh when You talk about your son. My brother would have been 69 years old on May 12th if he hadn’t taken his own life. It’s the grief that keeps on giving. I wish I could give you some giant pillow of comfort that you could sink into and all cares and woe would evaporate at least for a little while. Basically I just hope you keep on keeping on. Your grief in some ways is my grief and so many others grief. Is it useful to be in this kind of club? Heh. No. Also, different to lose a son. I’d like to send you some warm thoughts and a fluffy quilt and a bubble bath and a golden retriever. Maybe knowing people are hearing what you say is some sort of balm. I sure hope so. All the best to you.

By: Max page

Max page — Tue, 16 May 2017 13:46:27 +0000

I love you mommy…