Comments on: Hating The Ex

By: Monica

Monica — Tue, 27 Aug 2013 01:57:05 +0000

I have been stalking your blog, peppered with Max postings and wondering who he was, I’m so sorry you lost your child.

And your response to Stupid…er…Stupendous Bob is gorgeous.

By: Sister Wolf

Sister Wolf — Wed, 28 Mar 2012 00:51:04 +0000

Stupendous Bob – No one is basing men, Bob. I’d hate my ex if he were a woman, I can assure you.

By: Stupendous Bob

Stupendous Bob — Tue, 27 Mar 2012 22:53:30 +0000

This women LOVES to HATE her ex-husband, yet she takes no responsibility for the position she put herself in. She admits that she never loved the man and only married him to have someone to “take care of me [financially].” Well, he paid the mortgage and put food on the table, so he did exactly what you asked from him when you married him. The fact that YOU changed your mind about what you wanted isn’t his fault. And he certainly didn’t force you to stay with him for 17 years, again, that was your choice!

As much as you men-bashing women won’t admit it, men love stronger than women do. Think about it — men will pass up hundreds of women before meeting the one he loves, and when he meets here he will do anything to keep her from getting away. On the other hand, as this women attests to, women will marry a man simply because he has a job and she doesn’t want to be “alone”.

By: Make Do Style

Make Do Style — Sun, 18 Mar 2012 14:18:17 +0000

Now I hate him too!!! Surely he didn’t berate him worse thing to do. I’ll hold him down while annemarie drives over his nuts.

By: Judes

Judes — Thu, 15 Mar 2012 00:12:02 +0000

I have an ex who beat me, raped me, stalked me, etc. After we broke up I heard there’d been a fire in his house and I was elated for a few minutes, believing he’d died a fiery painful death.

Sadly, he survived. The friend who told me about the fire was very put off after she saw how happy I’d been during the few minutes I thought he was dead (painfully). It’s been nearly 30 years and I still google him occasionally, hoping he’s dead or at least in prison. Some people, like your ex and mine, are worthy of our eternal hatred. That he is keeping you from even looking at your son’s belongings is unconscionable. So sorry.

By: Kelly

Kelly — Tue, 13 Mar 2012 06:18:42 +0000

There is no rational cure for rational hatred.

By: Sister Wolf

Sister Wolf — Sun, 11 Mar 2012 10:11:45 +0000

Juri – You are the best friend ever! The cigarettes and magazines will be a real comfort. Bring chocolate, too. xo

By: Juri

Juri — Sun, 11 Mar 2012 07:44:01 +0000

Now I want to kill him, too, but it I seem to be late as so many others have killed him before me! I can still call him a cunt, though, and bring you lot cigarettes and magazines to when I come to see you in prison.

Should he miraculously survive, he’ll have to live for the rest of his life with himself, which seems to be a curse in itself.

By: Aja

Aja — Sat, 10 Mar 2012 16:15:25 +0000

Thank you for sharing this private, sad story with us. I would probably want to kill your ex too but I will tell you, the hate and anger that you carry in your heart isn’t good for you. I’m not saying” hurry up and get better” because these things take time. But I do think in the long run, you’re going to have to forgive him ONLY because it’s good for you. Sending warm thoughts.

By: Sister Wolf

Sister Wolf — Thu, 08 Mar 2012 22:43:51 +0000

cantsay – Do you have a voodoo doll?