Comments on: Incest is the New Black https://godammit.com/incest-is-the-new-black/ And I'm getting madder. Thu, 18 Aug 2011 21:48:13 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.2 By: Rob https://godammit.com/incest-is-the-new-black/comment-page-1/#comment-588146 Thu, 18 Aug 2011 21:48:13 +0000 http://www.godammit.com/?p=829#comment-588146 You people make me sick, look to your own god damn closets, if there is any relationship, other than dad and daughter, that’s their own business not yours to dictate what’s right or what’s wrong, if there is incest, and its consensual then fine, she’s old enough to know wha she wants anyways. Love is thicker than the bs your spouting, I speak from consensual incest in my past, and that experience was caring and loving. So do me a favor and look to your own souls. Again if they are happy, Its none of your BUSINESS PERIOD!

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By: Sister Wolf https://godammit.com/incest-is-the-new-black/comment-page-1/#comment-22520 Thu, 08 May 2008 23:51:26 +0000 http://www.godammit.com/?p=829#comment-22520 Well, I’m confused too.

I was indeed referring to the tabloid material cited in the Guardian.

Regarding generalizations: I do believe there is such a thing as a National Character. You know, like the French are snobs, the English are repressed, Americans are philistines, Israelis are warlike, and Germans are….German.

I believe this is the result of culture, obviously, not genetics.

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By: catface https://godammit.com/incest-is-the-new-black/comment-page-1/#comment-22502 Thu, 08 May 2008 14:39:34 +0000 http://www.godammit.com/?p=829#comment-22502 I’m confused. Do you think the Guardian is a tabloid? Or did you mean that the article looked at tabloid material from the daily mail and the sun? If the former, shame on you! The Guardian is not a tabloid.
The Frtizl thing is weird, and India Knight and The Times Online expressed a similar sentiment to you and got stomped on quite a bit for it.
Obviously both of you are generalising. Austria is not completely full of creepy men with domination/incest fetishes. But it does seem strange. And no matter what people say, mention Austria, and a lot of people will think hmmm Hitler was Austrian, and all Austrains/ Germans seemed pretty keen to do what he wanted so maybe Austrians/Germans are as a rule morally reprehensible/highly suggestible.

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By: Charponnaise https://godammit.com/incest-is-the-new-black/comment-page-1/#comment-22464 Wed, 07 May 2008 17:56:07 +0000 http://www.godammit.com/?p=829#comment-22464 This post is so wrong it’s right.

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By: Sister Wolf https://godammit.com/incest-is-the-new-black/comment-page-1/#comment-22425 Tue, 06 May 2008 21:47:51 +0000 http://www.godammit.com/?p=829#comment-22425 No harm done, my dear. Let us remain friends. Thanks for the link, it’s good to get a sense of the UK perspective (ie, tabloid mentality) on current events.

As for how long they will have to hear about Hitler….forever and a day.

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By: serpentine https://godammit.com/incest-is-the-new-black/comment-page-1/#comment-22422 Tue, 06 May 2008 20:54:51 +0000 http://www.godammit.com/?p=829#comment-22422 Fair enough. I would only identify someone as Catholic or Episcopalian if it was relevant to understand the context. The story I inadvertently offended you with wouldn’t have made any sense without the identification. And it’s clearly not anti-Jewish or anti-German.

I’m not Austrian, and ‘xenophobic’ is too strong — I guess I reacted because I thought it was a cheap shot. How long will they have to go on hearing about Hitler? Isn’t the news bad enough without pulling that out?

Usually I wouldn’t have responded but I guess I did since you were commenting elsewhere about a lack of commentors. And I do think humor can be found even in the macabre and politically incorrect (I just didn’t catch it in the blog entry), so then I thought maybe I was too harsh, and I threw in the other story and boy, did that ever not help. Although in my defense, if I’m supposed to see the humor in “First Hitler, now this” (assuming that you are not Austrian and hence out there with me on the thin ice) I think you could see the humor in what I posted. I am truly sorry if I offended you. Won’t happen again.

You certainly have plenty of company on the Hitler comparison, whether or not humor is intended.

http://commentisfree.guardian.co.uk/brendan_oneill/2008/05/a_nose_for_nazis_.html

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By: Sister Wolf https://godammit.com/incest-is-the-new-black/comment-page-1/#comment-22420 Tue, 06 May 2008 19:50:04 +0000 http://www.godammit.com/?p=829#comment-22420 Ah well, as a devout atheist I am also a Jew. So when someone tells me anything concerning “one of my Jewish friends…” I am immediately kind of disgusted. I can’t imagine referring to anyone I know as Catholic of Episcopalian.

Since you aren’t a member of the affected group, perhaps you are on thin ice when you tell the Jewish oven story.

I welcome any and all debate, Serpentine. But I’m wondering what first ticked you off…are you Austrian, or just sensing xenophobia?

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By: serpentine https://godammit.com/incest-is-the-new-black/comment-page-1/#comment-22409 Tue, 06 May 2008 15:00:13 +0000 http://www.godammit.com/?p=829#comment-22409 Well, I think it’s actually a joke about naive misunderstanding, and also comes from the space where some consider that if you’re a member of the affected group you’re entitled to own the humor. For example I’m friends with a physically disabled (his terms) stand-up comic who tells jokes about his experience that no-one who wasn’t in the same group could get away with. It goes without saying that a real lynching or real genocide isn’t funny at all. Given how this thread started, are we a pot and a kettle calling each other carbonized?

As far as the above goes, my colleague (who was the instigator) found it funny, when she realized what she had said, she found it funny, they got married, I found it funny when told to me years later. And I’ve been in stand-up venues when black comics told lynch-mob jokes (mostly about the stupidity of the lynchers) and don’t feel bad that I laughed. I’m not sure I would try to own the same material (that’s a bit Michael Scott / The Office / Do you want a cookie?).

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By: Sister Wolf https://godammit.com/incest-is-the-new-black/comment-page-1/#comment-22386 Tue, 06 May 2008 03:03:42 +0000 http://www.godammit.com/?p=829#comment-22386 Oh dear. A joke about Jews and ovens?

Serpentine, I am not convinced about your sense of humor, in fact I am quite worried about it. Do you have any jokes about negroes and lynch mobs?

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By: serpentine https://godammit.com/incest-is-the-new-black/comment-page-1/#comment-22372 Mon, 05 May 2008 21:25:03 +0000 http://www.godammit.com/?p=829#comment-22372 Ah. I guess the punch-line needed to be more obvious for me to get it. Since you went so far as to tag ithe entry “Hitler” it seemed like more than a passing wise-crack. Cue shouts “DON’T MENTION THE WAR” etc etc.

To try to convince you I’m not utterly humorless, here is a story from a Jewish colleague, when he was not yet dating his future German wife. She is very sweet but not always the fastest to detect a joke. On arriving at a party at her apartment, he made a remark about not going in the kitchen “because I see you’ve got an oven in there”. She caught the reference but not the attempt at humor and mingling horrified tones with an attempt at reassurance blurted “Oh no – no – it’s just for cooking“.

Which made everyone feel much better.

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