S: (adj) definitive, determinate (supplying or being a final or conclusive settlement) “a definitive verdict”; “a determinate answer to the problem”

http://wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn?s=definitive

Does it matter?

I think a lot of this, and it does come down to one’s age, is that our thought processes change and what was rivetingly important in our 30’s say, is of absolutely no interest in our 60’s.

I can remember my trying to get my mother to watch TV and follow the news shows and keep up to date when she was in her 60’s and 70’s and she couldn’t give a damn. My sister and I were always so proud of her because no matter what company she was in she could talk to anybody on any subject and then, gradually I guess, she lost interest and was happy in her own little world with her favourite books and pottering in the garden.
Well, I find myself now, when I am in my 60’s, in exactly the same position.

I don’t watch much news on TV although I do read about it online but, really, I am not much interested, curious yes, but I just don’t seem connected … it’s just not my business and there’s nothing I can do about it anyway.

I have come to the conclusion that this is another aspect of our lives and most of us will simply narrow our horizons to the tiny parts that are of most interest to us; family, close friends etc.

At least, that’s my theory and if nobody else likes it, well, I just don’t care!

The memory loss from my fibromyalgia and the fact I am dyslexic with numbers make me show up on entirely wrong days or weeks for appointments. Usually after the appointment.