Comments on: Powerless

By: drollgirl

drollgirl — Wed, 22 Dec 2010 01:18:37 +0000

this is bogus. i want to FIX this problem for you. grrrrr.

By: candy

candy — Mon, 20 Dec 2010 17:41:42 +0000

Sister Wolf, only you know how much your son’s belongings are important to you. I think you need his things to grief. I think the man that does that to you, will know how much he hurt you but later. Usually, we don’t know the pain we inflict to others only when we pass away; then we realise how wrong we were and the soul cries, the only way to make it up to the person is to come back to feel the same way. Sister, know that you are a strong person, us women are strong! we go through so much… I also think you have great people here that love you and demonstrate it every time you are hurt.
by the way, english is not my first language, so I apologize for the errors.

By: Liz

Liz — Mon, 20 Dec 2010 12:25:27 +0000

He’s an ass, probably forever. His being an ass does not change that you are Max’s mom, forever. I am praying for you, that you have rest and healing.

By: BethUK

BethUK — Mon, 20 Dec 2010 12:06:43 +0000

How awful. Underneath all that contol he is far weaker than you will ever be. You are not powerless, you have strength and patience in abundance and you will get there.

By: rosy hues

rosy hues — Mon, 20 Dec 2010 06:23:18 +0000

hang in there, sister wolf…

By: Carrie

Carrie — Mon, 20 Dec 2010 02:08:48 +0000

I’m with Hammie and Witch Moma…we’re all here in witness to some pretty fucking awesome power of expression every day. Not to mention standing by in support and holding you up with our hearts in all their various states of (dis)repair…

Also, though I want to rush in with Hallie, I’m thinking maybe Witch Moma’s suggestion is a good next escalation strategy? Alternate route of some kind?

By: Babsalicious

Babsalicious — Sun, 19 Dec 2010 23:15:38 +0000

Screaming helps. In a pillow, in the wind, in the bath, in a car, down the phone at the ex….a big scream to let it out.

I am sorry you lost your son. I hope you find him again somewhere and can tuck him somehow safe and close, so you do not feel without him.

Sending love and the hope you are able to lean on something firm to get through this time now.

By: Esme Green

Esme Green — Sun, 19 Dec 2010 23:07:52 +0000

I’ve been thinking of something to say. And I can’t find any words that don’t sound trite or cliche. I think Hammie said it best. I love your words. I look forward to reading them everyday.

You carried your son in your womb and now you carry him in your heart. And all these wonderful people here will try to carry you as long as you want us to.

By: dust

dust — Sun, 19 Dec 2010 17:49:08 +0000

you are xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

By: Witch Moma

Witch Moma — Sun, 19 Dec 2010 17:21:18 +0000

SW, you, more than anyone I know, have the power of expression.
Poignant & beautiful. Keep exercising it.

Re the controller; Does he have a Mother/Sister/Partner who would be more willing to work with you?

Sending you peace & love.