Comments on: The Horror of Sex

By: Supermouse

Supermouse — Sat, 30 Mar 2013 15:54:30 +0000

I think you fear the politically correct definition of woman and want the definition to change, as many people do, to something that speaks life to women. Hence the term validate, which literally means “speak life,” as opposed to condemn, which literally means, “with damnation.”

You might feel trapped between wishing for poetic revenge (I’m not going to become that! Go away! Everything sides with me) and the pressure to be a victim (I fear the dick of judgment! Everything sides with them). I think you should just be yourself, because the bad images and society’s love for them are going to go away someday.

Live! Liiiiiivvvvee! You have the power! *Phenomenal* woman!

By: Vicki

Vicki — Wed, 17 Oct 2012 21:39:30 +0000

ha ha ha ha, many thanks for making me laugh … again

By: Sister Wolf

Sister Wolf — Wed, 10 Oct 2012 23:48:42 +0000

Muscato – I would gladly trade dreams, although I hate for you to lose sleep.

Juri – Hahahahahahhahahaha.

Candy – Oh dear.

Bevitron – You’re always right. I wish I would follow your advice.

Sardonique – I think we have discussed this before. In any case, can’t the male brain think more about football and cars and beer or something?

Moolissa – YES YES dammit, sepia and Imperialist Russia!!!

looby – Oh fuck you. Go have your Wednesday wank.

By: looby

looby — Wed, 10 Oct 2012 16:01:28 +0000

I don’t think sex is *inseperable* from intimacy–I don’t feel intimate with the women whose pictures I like wanking over when my girlfriend isn’t around–but it makes the best actual sex going, and is an indispensable part of the latter.

My girlfriend isn’t slim by any means, but she turns me on, and thank fuck she doesn’t go on about being fat, which is the best way to a sexless relationship going. Men are far less judgemental about women than women are about themselves.

By: Moolissa

Moolissa — Sat, 06 Oct 2012 15:29:02 +0000

“Purritanical” = catlike
“Puritanical” = what i meant

Love you, Sister W.

By: Moolissa

Moolissa — Sat, 06 Oct 2012 15:24:49 +0000

I unsubscribed from a Tumblr I followed that featured a lot of softcore imagery like the ones you describe. I was feeling the same way you did, like Lisa Kudrow’s Aunt Sassy character on her show The Comeback. “I don’t need to see that!” (Do you know Aunt Sassy? God, I loved that show.) Anyhow, I would feel that way, and then I’d judge and analyze myself for being too “hung up” or “Purritanical”. Finally I hit a point where I was like, IDGAF. I yam what I yam, and I’m sick of seeing other people’s titties. Titties are beautiful, titties are nice. I love em. I have em. I don’t need to see that. Show me some damn butterflies or sepia photographs of scenes from Imperialist Russia. No more T & A, unless it’s mine bumpin with the anatomy of a brilliant, sexy, kind dude who can cook.

By: Juri

Juri — Thu, 04 Oct 2012 21:47:58 +0000

At least your dreams are interesting and you remember them! I would kill for a disturbing sex dream. On a typical night I wake up at 2 am, toss around for an hour or so and fall asleep for a couple of hours before the alarm goes off at 5 am without remembering a thing. The only recent dream I haven’t forgotten had me and Charlie Sheen on a rocky beach somewhere.

Charlie wanted to take a swim. The second he hit the water I knew he would be in trouble, and he was. Crocodiles. He barely made it back on dry land but he still managed to do a somersault before landing on his feet. I found it annoying. Then the crocodiles took a nap and I told Charlie we must kill them.

Sadly, we only had one knife so we had to take turns slitting their throats. Then I woke up and did my best to be ready for another day at the office.

By: Elena A.

Elena A. — Thu, 04 Oct 2012 21:17:26 +0000

“As a married person, I think of sex as inseparable from intimacy. Without intimacy, it’s all clowns with baseball bats.”

I feel the same and I´m single… Unfortunately women like this are “weirdos” for the other people nowadays…

By: Sardonique Schadenfreude Rictus

Sardonique Schadenfreude Rictus — Thu, 04 Oct 2012 11:16:00 +0000

As for the tits and asses part (from a male point of view), there is some contemporary thought from a number of evolutionary anthropologists and zoologists that as Early Humans evolved to being primarily bipedal (as opposed to the almost exclusively quadrupedal orientation of nearly all mammals), the location of the vulva began to shift from a roughly dorsal to a position closer to the ventral side of the human female body. Humans being extremely complex in their social interactions with each other (especially in sexual behaviors, rituals, etc.), this particular change happened within a few million years; a very short time indeed in evolutionary time. In order to compensate for the mammalian/quadrupedal orientation and placement of the vulva (best served by a ‘4 on the floor’ sexual position) to a more bipedal, front-facing orientation, the breasts of human females began to take on a more full and rounded contour (compared with many other quadrupedal mammals; i.e. dogs, cats, rats, Mandrills, Baboons, etc. ). Nature began to draw the attention of human males to the front of the human female for intercourse by using a visual trick to encourage ‘Missionary Position’, or face-to-face coupling. The visual inducement in question was to create rounded breasts with a clearly defined cleavage between them to hearken back to the days of quadrupedal intercourse; specifically the cleavage of the buttocks. When a contemporary human male has face-to-face intercourse with a human female, he is reminded of these earlier ‘rear approach’ delights by the appearance of the woman’s breasts mimicking the appearance of her buttocks. In this way, all of the previous programming inside the male brain (sexual cues of physiological changes in a woman’s body, the ebb and flow of her sexual desires over her fertile years, etc.) that had evolved over many millions of years is preserved by redirecting a few visual cues to the front of the woman’s body. The increased and even more complex socializing that is now permitted by face-to-face intercourse is thought to have co-evolved with language, as well (love poetry, pillow-talk, feedback systems of arousal and acknowledgement of pleasure, which would have been more diffused in a more traditional mammalian mating posture).

Bottom line: for men: tits are subliminal asses.

By: cat

cat — Wed, 03 Oct 2012 15:13:05 +0000

That clown in the picture looks like the puppet in the Madonna Erotica video. Is it just me or does the creepy little fucker’s eyes move? *shudder*

Don’t worry about the dreams. I’ve had some that I would be too mortified to talk about. I’d say we probably all do.