Comments on: TV Trauma: How Much is Enough?

By: Mary Broughton

Mary Broughton — Mon, 01 Jul 2019 14:25:30 +0000

Yeah, that’s right. Put your head in the sand.

By: David Duff

David Duff — Sun, 23 Jun 2019 17:31:29 +0000

Well, maybe, baby, but I just read this:

“Santana was one of the first boys picked up in the park the night of the attacks, April 19, 1989. While being driven to the precinct house, he blurted out: “I had nothing to do with the rape. All I did was feel the woman’s tits.”

At this point, the jogger hadn’t been found. The police knew nothing about any rape.

Richardson rode to the precinct with another boy, who announced to the police that he knew who did “the murder,” naming Antron McCray. Richardson concurred, saying, “Yeah. That’s who did it.”

Again, the police didn’t know about the jogger yet. (It’s not surprising that the boys thought she was dead: Her doctors didn’t expect her to live through the night.)

Over the next few days, five teenaged boys gave detailed confessions about the attack on the woman, as well as the other attacks. All five made their confessions in the presence of their parents or guardians.”

There is more but, alas, it is on the Ann Coulter site so you might need to don your NBC suit!

http://www.anncoulter.com/columns/2019-06-19.html#read_more

By: Jane

Jane — Fri, 21 Jun 2019 16:35:12 +0000

I stopped watching TV when Trump got elected-far too traumatic for me-and I live in Toronto…

By: Romeo

Romeo — Thu, 20 Jun 2019 17:21:34 +0000

I haven’t watched When They See Us either but this morning I saw footage of Phoenix police officers holding a black family at gunpoint because a child allegedly stole a doll from a dollar store.

RIP Trayvon Martin
RIP Freddie Gray
RIP Eric Garner
RIP Sandra Bland
RIP Tamir Rice
RIP Stephon Clark
RIP Philando Castile

By: Ck Sexton

Ck Sexton — Wed, 19 Jun 2019 04:00:17 +0000

Black women here.
You hit the nail on the head about trauma t.v.

By: Mary Beth Panneton

Mary Beth Panneton — Mon, 17 Jun 2019 21:26:40 +0000

My experience is very different from your loss of your son Max but bad nevertheless. I watched my brother-in-law die a couple of months ago, my kind funny giant member of our family, my sister’s base.
You wrote “I wanted that guy back. Why had they taken him away? I needed him back.”
I kept thinking, after he died, keeping watch over his body with my sister and her sons, maybe he’ll come back.
My sister and nephews and I started watching the Sopranos as comfort tv last year, now every episode seems to feature a death and funeral. TV can provide comfort or distress.
I remember April 1989, all the publicity about the Central Park 5, but barely a whisper about when they were shown to be innocent.
Take care, Sister Wolf.

By: Mark-E

Mark-E — Mon, 17 Jun 2019 15:56:49 +0000

I only made it through the first 45 minutes of “When They See Us.” I felt like shit for the next few days. What happened to those kids was horrifying and made more horrifying by the daily news.

Fuck that rancid sack of shit in the White House, and fuck all of his supporters.

By: Ali

Ali — Mon, 17 Jun 2019 01:22:08 +0000

*** In these same scenes, other characters are confused about what they (second-hand and sometimes first-hand) witness and usually just ignore it.

[had to fix this sentence :P]

By: Ali

Ali — Mon, 17 Jun 2019 01:18:22 +0000

I read the book Normal People a few weeks ago and it REALLY REALLY took me to a dark place. About familial and sibling abuse, and the main character seeking out romantic relationships that are physically and sexually abusive because they validate her belief that she deserves it.

It was strange because there are TONS of articles and reviews about this book (It book of the year, the rupi kaur of fiction, the first great millennial author, barf, etc) (it is really good with marxist criticisms of marketing/ capitalism / elitism in the art and literary world funny enough) but nOBODY DISCUSSED THE ABUSE AT ALL IN ANY OF THESE ARTICLES. Which was shocking because the DV relationships were central to the narrative and emotional growth of the main character. To my mind, the entire book is about childhood abuse and how it manifests in adulthood.

I realized that people weren't writing about it because it was never labeled in the book! Even though the scenes depicted are crystal clear examples of abuse, and not muddied at all. In these scenes, other characters confused about what they're (second-hand and sometimes first-hand) witnessing, or they ignore it. Since the narrator doesn't label the abuse, people who read the book don't either, or it doesn't jump out at them as anything other than a troubled childhood, or fucked up relationship.

I did not expect what I found in the book at all. And it took me a week to wade thru everything it brought up. I decided to go back to therapy to formulate a plan for creating strict emotional and physical boundaries with my sister.

Funny I didn't reach out to you about this. It's what I've been dealing with for the past week or so. Lots of repressed memories coming up.

And the scenes in the book hurt as if they happened to me, because they had, kinda.

LOVE YOU. Love Max. Love the sweet boy from the show.

xoxoxoox