Nothing helps to soothe the pain like a picture of Sea’s big fat face.
The vulgar coat, the stupid Louis Vuitton bag, the painful shoes and the gratuitous Gaysian and midget are just icing on the cake.
I hate you, you stupid moon-faced bitch. But it’s good to feel some healthy rage instead of the kind that makes you want to kill every single person who might have said the exact word at the exact time to persuade Max that life was worth living. The bad rage is driving me mad.
I’d like to tell that stupid bitch and her stupid mom to shut their stupid fucking mouths and wallets but if it weren’t for them tonight I’d be stuck in an endless loop of questions that will never be answered.
When I get the strength and pull myself together, I plan to begin a thorough, groundbreaking analysis of what makes Alec Baldwin so despicable. Prepare to be grilled on this topic.
@anon – It’s none of our business what happened. If SW wanted us to know, she would tell us. Those that need to know do. What happened was a tragedy in SW & her family’s lives. End of story, at least for you.
@Anna – “People really need to take a chill pill and calm down”
Nothing personal, but you need to take your own advice. We’re not abusing Sea. I think you’re completely misunderstanding. Take a chill pill & calm down.
We will keep lifting you up too.
Dear Sister
You’re welcome. We might not do much in this commentspace, but at least we can whack down the trolls for you, or try anyway.
xo
Jane just admiited via Twitter that she has a boyfriend . . I see a pattern: get a Asian looking guy, take him to foreign country,photo,blog,admit
http://stylesasquatch.blogspot.com
Candle lit in Bristol, England for you SW. Hope you’re as ok as you can be.
HOLY SHIT, SW.
Look at this model. The “limp noodle effect” or “apathetic Asshat” or “Paul Rudd in Wet Hot American Summer”
http://dakotacollective.com/bb-dakota/dresses
what the hell is wrong with the people that photograph this crap?
In the entertainment narrative of this blog, Sea of Shoes plays the fool.
We learn some kind of truth about our own flaws in examining and laughing at the caricature.
trope-ish.
Hey I know I’ve learned EXACTLY how I don’t want to behave- taking it all with a grain of salt- laughing my ass off- with SW’s Sea of Shit feature.
If you get it, you get it and if you want to protect SOS, HOW VERY FUCKING NOBLE OF YOU.
If it is not to your taste to rant about Sea, see what her Illuminati are up to.
http://www.mischiefmydear.com/dramatispersonae/2010/fashion-blogger-haul-videos/
Any time, Sister, it’s our honor.
Oh Sister Wolf. I’ve been thinking about you and your beautiful son for days, and my heart is breaking for you. Max was taken from you far too soon but I’ve no doubt that he blessed your life while he was with you, as I’m sure you did his. Sea just blesses us in other ways; she makes us appreciate the people of substance and intellect in our lives by having nothing but a giant wallet where her soul should be. I’m glad you’re channeling your rage in the proper direction through all of this. Stay strong. xoxo
Angels are crying, rain has been pouring down since.
I saw Max the other night,
He was shining as a new born star in our galaxy, proud and amused of his new role, still playing guitar.
Oh mother, your heart is broken and will never be the same,
Oh mother every day will be longer and harder.
We lighted candels around the world, but it will never be the same.
I wish you to be able to breathe again and have faith in the future.
With all my love
Aube
My deepest sympathies, Sister. Another candle lit in Paris.
guess anyone who has a blog and has a big following becomes a public figure whether that was their intention becomes a moot point. I suspect Sea’s has always been a seeker of public attention. I am not sure what SW intention was but she too has become a public figure and whether she likes it or not people will disagree with her point of view.
I heard that her son’s death was a suicide so I think people should give her a break!!. As a person who has experienced this horror, the anger and guilt you feel is enormous and you feel so full of rage, words cannot describe it. So for the people on here who don’t agree with her, please be aware that her reactions to what is written will be abnormal.
I can only hope and pray and tell her that in time it does get better and you do survive but the grief reactions to his death are far more intense with suicide.
I don’t think SW would publish the email of someone who disagreed with her under normal circumstances.
aube – I managed not to cry, thank you so much, that is beautiful.
Ella – Please listen carefully: This Debra person did not “disagree” with me. She elected to chastise me via my dead son. She chose this moment… and chose to compare my modest, introverted son to an exhibitionist clothes horse. In the words of Pup Fiction, YOU JUST DON’T DO IT.
How hard is this to understand????
obviously this will not relieve any of your pain, but it may provide a few laughs:
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_MUKLuXTLmQM/TBSd53pgkdI/AAAAAAAAAx8/S5bQPqSqkAQ/s1600/IMG_3369.JPG
the kind of photo little Sea should post on her own blog
ahh, just saw that Mickey already posted this…nice work
I have never encountered such hate on a website. I don’t know why everyone is so full of pointless rage. Flame all you want, I will never come back….
SW I am sorry for your loss and the suffering of your son but most of all I am sorry for all the suckers who read the hate that spews out of your mouth and festers on this blog. You obviously suffer from NPD which is understandable if you had the upbringing you say you had but then again this also could be a lie. You ask people to donate money to you then you go out and buy designer chattels, wake up people SW is a con artist and a clever one at that, half the problems she says she has don’t exist because she is a pathological liar. All you have to do is read her blog and notice how many times she lies. I know someone who was friends with J and yes she may be a self proclaimed cunt but I guess the people on here who read her stuff have no idea how mean and nasty she is and how she has conned people out of money and continues to do so on this blog. Please feel sorry for her but for God sake don’t give money to a person who will just go out and buy clothes and shoes for herself.
I cannot believe the number of absolute dirtbags who are attacking Sister Wolf NOW of all fucking times. It is completely irrelevant what kind of argument they’re making, this is just neither the time nor place. Anyone who had any sympathy for Sea of Shoes has had their argument negated by her obvious complete lack of empathy for other people. She is not a human being, just a giant dollar sign with legs.
Ignore these fuckheads Sister Wolf, we all know there’s a special room waiting for them in Hell. Do whatever you need to do. xo
Kate I don’t understand what the apology nonsense is about when you immediately flip into a diatribe about someone’s mental health and integrity. No apology necessary, right? Because let’s be honest, if you really cared, you wouldn’t be posting all that on this particular post, would you?
Dear Kate, Ella, …, and the rest of your ilk,
I’m sorry too. I’m sorry that you’re such clueless, inappropriate bitches. I’m sorry that you have nothing better to do with your time than be heartless cunts. But most of all, I’m sorry for your parents, having raised such awful animals. You’re colossal pieces of crap, not human beings.
I am very, very sorry for your loss, Sister Wolf. I lost my Dad in March, and know that feeling of emptiness and sadness. Please surround yourself with loving family, friends, and pets. I don’t need to tell you not to listen to the bitchy trolls, because you know how to handle that shit just fine. Its my first time commenting here…I’ve been a lurker for awhile.
Be Well, their will be a candle for Max in Vancouver.
Oh my! Kate, you can kiss my ass, you fucking lunatic. Be gone from here.
Debra, Ella, Kate, and other assorted trolls: what jolly good timing for your slander!
It baffles me that you can look down on us for poking fun at some random, comfortably rich and spoiled girl with a public blog, while you yourselves think it good sport to kick a woman (that some of you may even personally know!) while she is in one of the darkest periods of her life.
You’re all a bunch of shitbags unaware of your own stench. Stop worrying about how other people behave and examine your own rotting souls. What goes around comes around.
HelOnWheels- I honestly don’t think Ella was trying to be a troll, it’s just that she didn’t get that first commenter’s trollishness. She might have been clueless, yes (what happened earlier on the thread really wasn’t about “disagreement” at all, and as for the rest it’s Sister’s business what she chooses to tell us), but just plain horrible in the style of the other idiots up there? I think not.
And I do agree with at least one of her sentiments- people should give Sister a break now, of all times. Few, if any of us, have had a similar experience, I don’t think it’s anyone’s place to tell Sister what is or isn’t an appropriate way to deal with what she’s been going through.
Kate – you have sullied the good name of Kate. you have made me ashamed of my name momentarily. As for your diatribe I had a run in with Sainsbury once and they gave me a voucher rather than cash back. On the way home I found a tramp eating spagetti out of bin. I gave him the Sainsbury voucher. He told me he couldn’t take it because he’d only use it on drink. I shoved it into his hand and begged him to find the drinks aisle pronto. I loved his honesty but most of all I loved the fact he’d be dirty and smelly in their pristine aisle!
Mind you I got my comeuppance as you do when recently an old lady stinking of wee asked me for help in the squash aisle.
Stop these ridiculous personal attacks, they always say more about the person who does it than the person they are attacking.
Make Do – “you have sullied the good name of Kate”, HAHAHAHAHA! xo
Bloody hell there are some nutters around!
Oh well. Ignore them and hopefully they’ll bugger off to troll somewhere else.
Kate – your dimestore Psychoanalytic Theory is lacking. NPD is classified by a lack of empathy, a need for admiration and a pattern of grandiosity. Perhaps you should pick up a book, or like, google before you lob such accusations which only serve to underline YOUR own actions. You make me laugh, loudly and with nose snorts.
See, it’s funny because you think you’re enlightening the readers of this blog, when really you’re just making yourself look like a fucking idiot. I am sure you must be asking “how does my super great comment pointing out the super mean blogger and how stupid her readers are over teh internetz make me look like a fucking idiot and flaming lunatic?” Since I get the impression that you are not too bright, I will spell it out for you.
1.) Lack of Empathy – say, posting a comment like yours on a blog entry which clearly indicates the author’s grief.
2.) A Need for Admiration – thank you so much for your perspective, I really admire the total lack of conscientiousness, it takes a special brand of douchebaggery to make a comment like yours. I admire that you are able to get on with your day, even in the midst of being a truly awful person that karma must bite in the ass on a daily basis. That takes a lot of ignorance of your own actions, good for you.
3.) A Pattern of Grandiosity – that unrealistic sense of superiority must keep you warm at night, I hear having no soul can be difficult.
So in short, dear Kate, it really sucks that narcissim is an ingrained personality trait that can’t really be treated, I guess you will never have a chance to be a human being, it’s ok though, we don’t really need you.
Fuuuuuck me! What has been going on here? People, if you DONT like what you read, just shut the window down and move on. To berate someone who has recently lost their son is downright nasty. maybe if you felt that strongly about SOS, you might have chosen a better time, i.e. BEFORE SW’s awful news, to post it but no, you decide to do this now, and why? Because you are attention seeking little pussies hiding behind a PC screen. Would you really say what you typed up to a grieving mother? Come on Kate / Debra / Mutterballs or whatever the fuck your called – I want an explanation.
Is this how someone should act so soon after her son has passed? SW what if someone posted something like this about your child? A grieving mother… Please. A grieving mother should be thankful and look at the good in the world not make bitchy and pathetic comments.
Rebecca, guess what? Your a cunt. Why should a grieving mother be thankful? Thankful for what exactly? For cunts like you telling them how they should act?
Rebecca didn’t get the earlier memo it seems.
I love how these self-righteous trolls actually care enough, and have enough time, to get all worked up about the hilarious comments aimed at several total wastes of space.
I mean, SW may be critical and harsh (As hilarious as she is, I am not sure I would want to be friends with her IRL), but come on, she is mocking the rampant consumerism that is wrong with America. The girls with the fashion blogs, especially Sea, should be DOING something with their lives, not just exhibiting their temporary “good looks” (because we all know that once they meet their sugar daddy and pop out a few kids, they will look haggard and overly made-over) and their lack of impulse control in the money department. It’s FUCKING COMEDY GENIUS. And what makes comedy work is the truth behind it. Those stupid girls are setting back any progress women have made in the past 30 years. Sea and her ilk are a teenage parody of what a “kept” woman in the 50’s was. It’s archaic, and quite frankly makes me want to punch their parents for raising them that way.
If she was on comedy central, you’d probably be eating it up, but because she is one person, with a wordpress blog, and you didn’t come up with the idea first, the attacks some out.
And the trolls are only coming out of the woodwork further because of her personal tragedy. Because they know that no matter what inane thing they say, at this moment in time, they will get a reaction where previously they would be ignored.
It is very brave of you to anonymously attack someone on the comments section of their website. Especially when they’ve just had something personally horrible happen to them. Kudos to you. Are you this brave and confrontational in real life? I doubt it. Get your little bravery points where you can get them, my friend. Because obviously not too many people offline give enough of a shit to give you the attention.
Also, dear trolls, unlike you, i don’t trackback each and every comment i leave anywhere because I do have better things to do with my time than care what people I will never interact with on any real level have to say, so I am just going to ignore any bullshit response you might have.
Reading this blog used to be fun. Thanks for ruining it, you stupid fucking asshats.
Rebecca, and who are you to tell someone how to grieve? Have a little respect.
Rebecca is The Queen of Cunts! What kind of idiot tells a grieving mother that she not doing it correctly??!!
Rebecca, I guess part of what Sister Wolf should be “thankful” for and consider part of the good in this world is that you are not Max’s mother- she is. Apparently grief, and rage resulting from grief, are outlawed in Stepford or Pleasantville or whatever real-life version of them you live in.
YOU are a rock, Sister Wolf. A true and powerful force to be reckoned with. I am in awe.
Keep your chin up and your fists high. You are an inspiration to us all.
Rebecca – the dungeon awaits. 4 trolls to contend with I will be exhausted. Unless you are playing up because you’ve caught the really lame perversion bug?
Plus can you please go back to school and take comprehension tests and learn to read properly this will help in the punishment tests I will be overseeing. I’ve already bought the midget in the middle she’ll be wielding the whip.
hahahaha…loving Kate’s post!
Funniest thing I’ve read all day.
cuntflaps…..
I would like to add my name to the list of people voting for Debra for Cunt of the Week, but then Ella and Kate started talking. Ella just sounds annoying in her attempts to show how much she “understands”, but Kate and Debra were way out of line in every possible way. Maybe you can just give them one big Cunt of the Week award together? Or give them the award on separate weeks, back-to-back?
Thoughts go with you, Sister Wolf.
Even though it’s stupid to handwring over it, for months I was the only semi-regular commenter who went by just “Kate.” Unoriginal yes, but I wanted to be neutral. Now it seems every third troll is using this simple handle. Obviously many of us commenters are named some variation of this universal shrew moniker, but now it has been killed once and for all. Kates–fuck all of you (except the nice one who is sister’s friend). From now on, I’m Hortense.
Given the mutterhals definition someone found, I propose we unnofficially rename the award Mutterhals of the Week. Just on a temporary basis.
Holy crap, I go away for a few days and what I find here… Mutterhals, why are you still lurking here – don’t you have your awful blog to take care of? Are you addicted to SW blog, or secretly in love with her – which is it?
Rebecca – you should be thankful that a grieving mother can’t whack you in the forehead over the internet, which would be THE right thing to do. As for Kate and her revelations – let’s not feed this troll.
SW, don’t pay attention to idiots, sadly, there will be always plenty of them around…
Regarding Sea – don’t hate her, it’s all rather sad, but things she does to her feet beg for an intervention. She’ll be very sorry about it when (and if) she reaches my age. I see very very sensible old lady shoes in her future…
Oh yes, please PLEASE heap some hate on Alec Baldwin!
Holy freaking Crap! This is so out of hand. Sister Wolf, I hope you find some comfort in the fact that you have received so much love in spite of these awful comments from disgusting trolls. I wish you lived near, so we could comfort you with some Amanda Palmer and much chocolate and even shopping for quality leather items. Since you don’t, I have a hypothesis for all of this insane hate. I think all these trolls might be Baldwins. It happens. Yee-uck…still lighting candles for you and yours…xoxox
You know, I read Kate’s comment and then I went looking, you know, in the spirit of the Sainsbury voucher, for the money-begging posts and the Paypal button or the Visa logo.
Cause you know, I don’t have any fucking money, but I’m sure I could make do just to make some troll pop a blood vessel, mm? That’d be worth a day eating the 80 cent yogurt at my desk, thinking of good ole SW with a beautiful new jacket, and some troll with blood spurting out of her nose.
Couldn’t find the fucking buttons. SW, you gotta try harder with this money-begging shit. I read your whole blog and couldn’t figure it out. I clicked on all kinds of shit too.
God, this reminds me of when my first husband died and the idiots would stop me on the street to tell me about how THEY were emotionally overcome and couldn’t handle it.
Uh.
I’d be like “Yeah, sorry to hear. Excuse me, but I gotta go clock in for work.”
Fuckers.
They wanted me to give up and start whining too.
I went to law school.
Does your dungeon need a lawyer? I still have a copy of my tax code…
Dear SW,
Candles in Beijing. Votre haine dure, et c’est pour ca que je vous admire tellement, because it’s often the most tangible and ready emotion, and you’re not ashamed to grasp it when you need it. Your grieving is honest. I can only hope to be so brave as to not give a fuck about what others think regarding how I should grieve. The candles are slowly burning out – I’m sure Max has found a home. Nothing but the best,
sister wolf – in my mother’s heart I am hurting for you and your family.
on the trolls and the haters – I have nothing but contempt – anyone who has spent anytime in this wonderful community of smart, funny, stylish women KNOWS that Sister Wolf, and Make Do Style etc etc are passionate loyal friends and look after each other and fellow bloggers all over the world. That’s why I return here everyday – to see community in action. Love your work, ladies – don’t stop.
Sister Wolf, I can only echo what others said above, I am so sorry for your loss. I have always enjoyed reading your blog, and I am very glad you have decided to continue. I took a moment for you and Max when I read the sad news the other day. My love to you and your family at this difficult time. This feels odd to type out, as I know we’ll never meet, but some things can’t go unspoken. x