Tag Archives: hospitals

Triage

Having left off with a heartbroken post about Mother’s Day, I am back with more miserable reflections of the state of things, or more specifically the state of me, Sister Wolf. Remember when I fell and broke my pelvis? Well, … Continue reading

Posted in Disorders, grief, News | Tagged , , , | 12 Comments

The Headache

One day last week, fresh from a shower, I swaggered into my husband’s home office, made eye contact, turned around and walked away. He put his guitar down and followed me to the bedroom. There, we embarked upon an  intrinsically … Continue reading

Posted in Disorders, love | Tagged , , | 16 Comments

Neverending Trauma

Today some woman called from the medical supply company to talk about Max’s wheelchair. She wanted to schedule a pick-up time, since the insurance company won’t pay for the rental “once the client has passed.” I don’t want to hear … Continue reading

Posted in grief, Horrible Stuff | Tagged , | 42 Comments

Nursing Home Outrage, Part II

Back in October, I had a first-hand experience of conditions at a Los Angeles nursing home. I was stunned by the blatant inhumanity: I don’t know what else to call it. How can this shit go on? How can people … Continue reading

Posted in Horrible Stuff, News, Rants | Tagged , , | 35 Comments

Sea of Shoes is Through Taking Your Shit

That’s right, you meanies. She has shut done her comments because of you. Well, not exactly.   Let her explain in her own words:   “Comments aren’t necessary.” Who cares what you people think?!? Fuck all y’all. Sea of Shoes is famous … Continue reading

Posted in Fashion, Horrible Stuff, Words | Tagged , , | 114 Comments

Falling Off My Horse

Despite all my talk about being a samurai, I fell off my horse yesterday. It was bound to happen sometime, but it left me shaken and badly bruised. Among my family troubles are Other family troubles. Things spun out of … Continue reading

Posted in News, Religion | Tagged , , | 45 Comments

Self Pity and Samurai

A trusted advisor told Max last week,”Wallowing in self pity is a choice.” Ha, I beg to differ. Sometimes, self pity is the rational response to one’s situation. Just as depression, anger or grief are rational responses to heartbreak, betrayal, … Continue reading

Posted in Horrible Stuff, Religion, Words | Tagged , , | 37 Comments

Waiting For Mr. Capote

Mr. Capote shares a room with Max and has the side with a window. It’s also the side with the television. I used to assume that the window side was reserved for V.I.P.’s (i.e., people with better insurance) but now … Continue reading

Posted in Horrible Stuff, Words | Tagged , , | 10 Comments

Fashion vs Existential Horror

Tonight, I was laying on my bed like a beached whale after my day at the “hospital” and talking on the phone to my sister. She was telling me about the three t-shirts she bought today and while she was … Continue reading

Posted in Fashion, Words | Tagged , , | 16 Comments

An Idyllic Outing

Today, Scott the Physical Therapist put Max in a special chair and took him outside to get some fresh air. We joined this nice couple, who were also enjoying some sunlight. They have been married for 61 years and she … Continue reading

Posted in Horrible Stuff, Rants | Tagged , | 34 Comments